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Why Wake Up Sid Is My Favourite Movie

A personal essay on direction, adulting, and why being confused isn't the same as being finished.

Written by Vaibhav Chaudhary
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Why Wake Up Sid Is My Favourite Movie

THE CORE THESIS

Being confused isn't the same as being finished. Growing up isn't about suddenly having a five-year plan or instant certainty — it's about direction, awareness, and having the courage to simply start trying things.

There are movies you watch once.
There are movies you watch when you have nothing better to do.
And then there are movies you come back to when life starts feeling a little confusing.

For me, Wake Up Sid is the third kind.

I don’t think Wake Up Sid is my favourite movie because it has the best plot ever written.

It doesn’t.

It’s a pretty simple story.

A confused 21-year-old guy doesn’t know what he wants to do with his life. He spends his days playing video games, partying, spending his father’s money and generally avoiding the question that every Indian parent eventually asks:

💬 “Beta, life mein karna kya hai?”

And honestly?

That’s exactly why I love it.

Because Sid doesn’t suddenly wake up one morning with a five-year plan.

He just starts trying things.

And I think that’s something we don’t talk about enough.


ACT ISECTION 01

We’re Constantly Told to Have a Plan

The pressure of figuring out your entire life before you've even lived it

Growing up in India, there is a strange pressure to have your entire life figured out before you’ve even lived it.

❓10th ke baad kya karoge?
❓Science ya commerce?
❓College mein kya karoge?
❓Placement lagegi?
❓MBA? Government job? Startup?

And somewhere between all these questions, you are expected to magically discover:

“What is my passion?” — At 18.

Sid doesn’t have an answer.

And neither did I.

Maybe that’s why the movie feels so personal.


ACT IISECTION 02

Sid Isn’t Lazy. He’s Lost.

The crucial difference between being directionless and being lazy

This is probably the biggest thing I took away from the movie.

At the beginning, Sid looks like the stereotypical irresponsible rich kid.

  • He doesn’t study.
  • He doesn’t care about his exams.
  • He doesn’t take his internship seriously.
  • He fights with his father.
  • He spends most of his time doing absolutely nothing productive.

But underneath all of that, I don’t think Sid is simply lazy.

He’s directionless.There is a fundamental difference.

When you don’t know what you want, even simple things become difficult.

You procrastinate. You scroll. You play games. You sleep.
You tell yourself you’ll figure it out tomorrow.

And then tomorrow becomes next week.
And next week becomes another year.

The Real Fear

The scary part isn’t failing. It’s spending years doing things without ever asking yourself whether you actually want them.


ACT IIISECTION 03

Then Comes Aisha

Not certainty, but direction

Aisha is one of the reasons the movie works so well.

She moves to Mumbai because she wants to become a writer. She doesn’t have everything figured out either.

But she has something Sid doesn’t:

Not Certainty. Direction.

And I love that distinction.

She isn’t some perfectly successful person who arrives to teach Sid how to live. She’s figuring out her own life too.

The difference is that she’s willing to move.

✍️ She writes
💼 She works
🏙️ She explores
⚡ She makes mistakes
🚀 She keeps going

And slowly, Sid starts doing the same.


ACT IVSECTION 04

The Scene That Stayed With Me

Discovering photography & the curiosity trap

For me, it’s not the college scenes. It’s not the comedy. It’s not even the romance.

It’s Sid discovering photography.

There’s something beautiful about watching someone become interested in something without initially knowing where it will lead.

He picks up a camera. He starts taking pictures. He notices things differently.

And eventually, he realises:

📸 “Wait. I actually like doing this.”

That’s it.

❌ No magical career test.
❌ No LinkedIn guru.
❌ No productivity system.
❌ No “10 steps to discover your passion.”
✅Just: Try something. Then try something else. See what makes you curious.

See what you’re willing to get better at. And maybe, somewhere along the way, you find your thing.


ACT VSECTION 05

Growing Up Doesn’t Happen in One Dramatic Moment

Wake Up: Becoming aware, not overnight successful

That’s another reason I love the title.

Sid Becomes Successful
Sid Gets His Life Together
Wake Up.

Because growing up isn’t necessarily about suddenly becoming responsible.

It’s about becoming aware.

💡 Aware of your choices
⏳ Aware of your time
🎯 Aware of your life

Sid doesn’t become a completely different person overnight. He simply starts paying attention.

And maybe that’s what adulthood actually is. Not having all the answers. Just becoming more conscious about the questions you’re asking.


FINALESECTION 06

Maybe That’s Why I Keep Coming Back to It

Being confused isn't the same as being finished

Every time I watch Wake Up Sid, I notice something different.

  • At 18: I saw a fun coming-of-age movie.
  • Later: I saw a story about finding a career.
  • Now: I see something slightly different.

“Being confused isn’t the same as being finished.”

You can be 21, 24, 27 or 35 and still not know exactly what you’re doing. That’s okay. The important part is not staying there forever.

👉 Try something. Fail at it. Change your mind. Start again.
👉 Take the job. Quit the job.
👉 Pick up a camera. Start writing. Build something.
👉 Move to another city.
👉 Have an embarrassing first attempt.
👉 Do something badly enough that you eventually become good at it.

Because sometimes the thing you’re looking for isn’t hidden somewhere inside you waiting to be discovered.

Sometimes you have to do things until you discover it.

And that’s why Wake Up Sid will probably remain one of my favourite movies.

Not because Sid figured everything out. But because he finally decided to start figuring it out.

And honestly, I think most of us are still somewhere between those two moments.

We’re all a little bit Sid.
Maybe we’re just waiting to wake up.

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