Why Wake Up Sid Is My Favourite Movie
A personal essay on direction, adulting, and why being confused isn't the same as being finished.
Why Wake Up Sid Is My Favourite Movie
THE CORE THESIS
Being confused isn't the same as being finished. Growing up isn't about suddenly having a five-year plan or instant certainty — it's about direction, awareness, and having the courage to simply start trying things.
There are movies you watch once.
There are movies you watch when you have nothing better to do.
And then there are movies you come back to when life starts feeling a little confusing.
For me, Wake Up Sid is the third kind.
I don’t think Wake Up Sid is my favourite movie because it has the best plot ever written.
It doesn’t.
It’s a pretty simple story.
A confused 21-year-old guy doesn’t know what he wants to do with his life. He spends his days playing video games, partying, spending his father’s money and generally avoiding the question that every Indian parent eventually asks:
💬 “Beta, life mein karna kya hai?”
And honestly?
That’s exactly why I love it.
Because Sid doesn’t suddenly wake up one morning with a five-year plan.
He just starts trying things.
And I think that’s something we don’t talk about enough.
We’re Constantly Told to Have a Plan
The pressure of figuring out your entire life before you've even lived it
Growing up in India, there is a strange pressure to have your entire life figured out before you’ve even lived it.
And somewhere between all these questions, you are expected to magically discover:
“What is my passion?” — At 18.
Sid doesn’t have an answer.
And neither did I.
Maybe that’s why the movie feels so personal.
Sid Isn’t Lazy. He’s Lost.
The crucial difference between being directionless and being lazy
This is probably the biggest thing I took away from the movie.
At the beginning, Sid looks like the stereotypical irresponsible rich kid.
- He doesn’t study.
- He doesn’t care about his exams.
- He doesn’t take his internship seriously.
- He fights with his father.
- He spends most of his time doing absolutely nothing productive.
But underneath all of that, I don’t think Sid is simply lazy.
When you don’t know what you want, even simple things become difficult.
You procrastinate. You scroll. You play games. You sleep.
You tell yourself you’ll figure it out tomorrow.
And then tomorrow becomes next week.
And next week becomes another year.
The Real Fear
The scary part isn’t failing. It’s spending years doing things without ever asking yourself whether you actually want them.
Then Comes Aisha
Not certainty, but direction
Aisha is one of the reasons the movie works so well.
She moves to Mumbai because she wants to become a writer. She doesn’t have everything figured out either.
But she has something Sid doesn’t:
And I love that distinction.
She isn’t some perfectly successful person who arrives to teach Sid how to live. She’s figuring out her own life too.
The difference is that she’s willing to move.
And slowly, Sid starts doing the same.
The Scene That Stayed With Me
Discovering photography & the curiosity trap
For me, it’s not the college scenes. It’s not the comedy. It’s not even the romance.
It’s Sid discovering photography.
There’s something beautiful about watching someone become interested in something without initially knowing where it will lead.
He picks up a camera. He starts taking pictures. He notices things differently.
And eventually, he realises:
📸 “Wait. I actually like doing this.”
That’s it.
See what you’re willing to get better at. And maybe, somewhere along the way, you find your thing.
Growing Up Doesn’t Happen in One Dramatic Moment
Wake Up: Becoming aware, not overnight successful
That’s another reason I love the title.
Because growing up isn’t necessarily about suddenly becoming responsible.
It’s about becoming aware.
Sid doesn’t become a completely different person overnight. He simply starts paying attention.
And maybe that’s what adulthood actually is. Not having all the answers. Just becoming more conscious about the questions you’re asking.
Maybe That’s Why I Keep Coming Back to It
Being confused isn't the same as being finished
Every time I watch Wake Up Sid, I notice something different.
- At 18: I saw a fun coming-of-age movie.
- Later: I saw a story about finding a career.
- Now: I see something slightly different.
“Being confused isn’t the same as being finished.”
You can be 21, 24, 27 or 35 and still not know exactly what you’re doing. That’s okay. The important part is not staying there forever.
Because sometimes the thing you’re looking for isn’t hidden somewhere inside you waiting to be discovered.
Sometimes you have to do things until you discover it.
And that’s why Wake Up Sid will probably remain one of my favourite movies.
Not because Sid figured everything out. But because he finally decided to start figuring it out.
And honestly, I think most of us are still somewhere between those two moments.
We’re all a little bit Sid.
Maybe we’re just waiting to wake up.
Vaibhav
Content Writer · Researcher · Storyteller
I research deeply, think critically, and turn complicated ideas in technology, AI, business, and internet culture into writing people actually want to read.
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